Keep it short and sweet
People will ask many questions about your choice to go vegan, at least until they’re used to the idea. This is a good way to spread the vegan message, but it can be hard if you're not used to this line of questioning. Remember that you're well within your rights to change the subject if you don’t wish to discuss it, particularly at mealtimes. Our blog on how to talk to your family about veganism may help with this. As the blog says, knowing your facts is a key way to keep yourself confident.
Don’t feel you have to explain everything in detail right away. If you don't feel comfortable with the conversation or confident in your responses, offer to send them information later (this website could be a good starting point). If anyone refuses to accept this answer, they're probably looking for an argument and it's best to change the subject. Those genuinely interested won’t mind waiting.
Have courage in your convictions
When discussing your choice to go vegan in a little more depth, keep in mind you won't change anyone's mind in the course of one conversation. Prepare by doing careful research and giving thought not only to your personal reasons for choosing to be vegan, but also the wider issues of animal use, the environment and human health. Try to answer in a positive way and try to remain calm. Even if the conversation leaves you feeling exhausted, remember it may have been more productive than you think. If others get angry, that’s usually their problem – and it normally won’t last. When you have more confidence in yourself and your decision, check out out blog on how to maximise your outreach to non-vegans.
Enjoy the triumphs of vegan living
Meeting other vegans can be a great way to chat about vegan living, share your favourite recipes and encourage each other with vegan experiences. Compare notes on what's going well, the challenges you’re facing, your long-term vision and the next achievable steps in your vegan journey. The Vegan Society has a network of Local and Group Contacts where you can meet other vegans and volunteering is a great way to learn quickly, gain experience and meet new people.